Sunday, July 1, 2012

ARE YOUR FRIENDS TRUE TO YOU?

I have tons of friends; however, the fake ones win by a landslide. I do not really know what the problem is, or whether the cause of being untrue is me or the other person. I am pretty sure you, reader, are experiencing the same scenario as me, so ask yourself, "Are my friends really true to me?"

HOW TO KNOW IF YOUR FRIEND IS FAKE?

• She shows less affection to you. A good example of this is being nice and talkative to other people, except you. She texts and laughs out loud with the other people around you, to the point that you want to leave the room and stay inside at home, dying of curiousity on why she/he is like that.

• Smiles at you differently. The I-Am-Evil-And-I-Will-Kill-You smile we all see in horror or suspense films.. You yourself could notice or feel that.
• He/she ignores you when in a public place or with a group of others.
• He/She only approaches you when they are in need of something, and when they have what they need, they walk away and never talk to you again- Unless they need something else. Again.
• While having a conversation with him/her, or when the both of you are simply staying in the same room waiting for your other friends, the atmosphere / aura suddenly goes from normal to mega awkward.
• He/She says "I MISS YOU!" all the time, but make no effort in actually hanging out or being with you.
• He/she joins others in talking about you behind your back, rather than defending you.
• He/she always judges everything about the way you are- The way you talk, walk, dress, and even the way you breathe. LMAO but it really is true. I know people who are like that.
• When in a circle of friends, he/she tends to speak with others about topics you have no clue of! And more often than not, they really do this intentionally.
•He/She never says "Thank you!", "I'm sorry.", or any other polite statements even when the need to do so is highly applicable.



IF YOU HAVE GOT A SCORE OF MORE THAN 5, HE/SHE IS NOT A TRUE FRIEND!

HOW TO KNOW IF YOUR FRIEND IS TRUE? THE EXACT OPPOSITE OF THE ACTIONS ABOVE

If you are still in doubt if your friend is true to you, here are a few questions you must ask to none other but yourself:

• Is he/she always there for you when you are in need?
• Does she offer to help you? Some even insist in helping even after you say "No." :)
• Does he/she apologize and try to make up for the mistakes made?
• IMPORTANT: Does he/she remember your birthday and give gifts? Though this question does not really imply to being a true friend or not. Some forget easily and others have no budget or time to give you gifts, so rely on how they greet you. Do they say it personally or on the phone? If so, that is good. If they just text you "Happy Birthday. Take Care." then that is a so-so.
• Lastly, do you and the other person forgive each other easily after a fight? How? Do you hold grudges after the conflict?

I wish everyone a great day ahead! Remember, this post is just a mere guide on true and fake friends, so do NOT base everything here.

Another piece of advice that I would be happy to share to you all is to just be yourself, and never ever change to be liked by other people. It is basically living a lie for fame and "love". If they cannot accept you for who you are, they do not deserve your time and effort. Live life the way you should, and live up to Him, not to those who will only like you for what you have.



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It's not how many friends you have it's the quality of friends you have.

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BONUS PHOTO!


My friend, Bea on the left with me during a school event. She has been my bestfriend for about 12-13 years already. I love her!

39 comments:

  1. You have some good pointers on determining who's who. I think it would behoove a lot of people to read them -- because a lot of people find out who's who the hard way: they go thru a tough time, and see their "friends" disappear/avoid contact. True friends are uncircumstantial; to them, what happens doesn't matter because you do; to a fake friend, you don't matter because your circumstances do.

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  2. thanks for this sis. the best thing is to sort out friends. :)
    same tayo, almost 15 years na kaming magbestfriend ng bff ko. :) grabe. parang whole life ko na xa bestfriend.

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  3. True...its not the quatity but the quality to consider... :D

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  4. this post is really helpful :) Thanks :)

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  5. ANG DAMING MGA FAKE FRIENDS NGAYON kahit akaala mo they're so kind and helpful.. Good thing I read this post. =)

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  6. I had problem with a friend and she fabricated some stories. It's hard to trust that's why I miss my best friend!

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  7. You know sis, it's really better to have a handful but true friends, than to have a lot of fake ones. Actually, I should be thankful that all (if not then most) of my friends are true, despite being so few. Sometimes I can't help but feel sad though 'cause I don't have a large group that I can get crazy with.

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  8. I know right, that's why I never replace my HS friend with the new found friends. This happens especially in my work place.. sobrang daming ganito.

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  9. I shared your post to my FB wall.... LOL... I wanna see you will react...

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  10. I agree to this shobs! hahaha. :)) I like the photo there.. I wanna share it on my fb wall :)) I super can relate to this.. you know naaaaa.. ;)

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  11. Many times when we are younger we really get hurt when we find out our friend turns out to be a "fake" friend. But, when you grow to twice your age, it is easier to find out who they are. At my age, we are able to be what we want to be and who know who we want to be with. If you find out who you are and are secure with yourself, finding out who are "fake" may not matter too much because you are able to see through them earlier!

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  12. It's really tough to find real people worthy of friendship nowadays, but I'm happy to be one of the few lucky ones who have found true friends. I have four amazing gals who are always there to back me up. We know each other so well, I can't even lie to them. You're blessed to have also found a good friend. She's a gem. Keep her. :)

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  13. I now doubted everyone around me :(

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  14. So sad to hear that you think you have loads of fake friends :( Sigh, I've had some experiences with people like that back in high school though. Right now, I have fewer friends but all of them I love dearly. I know I can rely on them at all times. :) I'm glad you have Bea too. :)

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  15. Sometimes, a fewer circle is better right? At least you know everyone is real and loving. I have fake friends, but I know how to take care of them. LOL

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  16. well i think we all have fake friends. daming ganyan ngayon. tsk.

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  17. There are lotsa fake friends nowadays and users too.. Before, i used to trust people easily but now, i know better.. you dont need to have 100 friends coz normally, the true ones are just 2-3. You will know if they're true to you like even if you dont give them much favors, they are still there for you and ya know whenever you've got a problem they are the ones who would stay by your side

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  18. You know what's scarier? Those totally fake friends who aren't in those criteria, and you really think they're real. They earn your trust and then just steals it and disappears. That's why in my own opinion, true friends are the ones who tell you you look funny in a dress, or someone that will tease you, and have fights once in a while.

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  19. wow you look really fierce sa photo! :)
    anyway, i'm not too sure too, pero i really try my best to be a good friend even if the others can't. it's easier said than done pero i think respect is really key.

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